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How To Protect Yourself From Social Contagion

We are influenced by the people around us. Even if we don’t know them. Even if they are separated by 2-3 degrees of separation. Although this is a new area of research, intuitively I can feel these findings to be true. Good news: there is a way to protect yourself against social contagion.

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“What If We Let Go Of The Striving?”

What if we stopped trying? Trying to be better. Trying to be more. Trying to be perfect.

What if we just accepted who we are and started trusting that in time, we will become all that we were meant to be?

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Are You A Hummingbird Or A Jackhammer?

I’d rather be a hummingbird. A generalist. (Or a dilettante - depending who is asking.)

"Hummingbirds spend their lives doing it very differently. They move from tree to tree, from flower to flower, to field to field... Trying this, trying that. They create incredibly rich, complex lives for themselves and they also end up cross-pollinating. That is the service you do if you are a hummingbird person,"

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Long Term Projects

Photo by Jeff Sheldon on Unsplash

Start a project today that will take you 20 years to finish. We focus too much on instant success, and this is a post that reminds us of the greatness that can be achieved long term.

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How Social Media Killed My Creativity and What I Did to Fix It

But that social media bubble isn't an indication of the real world. It is an arbitrary jumble of relationships that i've collected over the years. Some that I adore with all my heart and some that I briefly met once or twice.

This is not the group of people that I bear my creative soul to.

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Keep Making Things That Fall Short of Your Standards.

Photo by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash

This post is about the creative gap and how you can close it.

the most important possible thing you could do is do a lot of work. Do a huge volume of work, put yourself on a deadline so that every week or every month you know you're going to finish one story because it's only by actually going through a volume of work that you're actually going to catch up and close that gap."

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